Sunday, May 27, 2012

PARTYUP

So my daughter Catlin, my oldest child, asked me a month ago or so what I was planning for my birthday. I said let's have a little dinner. She said, it's your 70th pops, you gotta have a party. So she threw me a wonderful one last night. So my three children and two grand children, some old friends and new, young and old (from little kids to older than me), from near and far.

I was flattered that folks could make it on a holiday weekend, a lot couldn't, and was gratified that I know so many wonderful people who care about me and who I care about. Some good food and then my oldest son, Miles, read a poem one of my oldest and dearest friends, Terence Winch, had written and sent because he couldn't make the party, followed by my daughter singing in her angelic voice "The Fields of Athenry"—our Lally clan anthem since my father's father was an immigrant from a little crossroads right outside Athenry, his name too was Michael, as is the man being sung about—followed by a poem by the first friend I made when I moved back to Jersey in '99, another Mick (this one originally from Brooklyn, Bill Lannigan) who those who know me thought really showed how well he got me.

Then the band Miles plays bass in, BELL ENGINE, played a great set that got people up and dancing, starting with me. This was sometime after 8PM and I kept dancing through their set into the dance mix I had selected from my iTunes library, with whoever would join me for the next almost four hours. I got that high I get when I dance for a long time, maybe like a runner's high after a certain distance. I can't think of a better way to have celebrated making it this far.

I wish you all could have been dancing with me, and I hope I remember to do it more often because it certainly is an affirmation of life, boogieing all the disappointments and future challenges and hurts and vulnerabilities into submission or remission or transcendence.  Do you wanna dance?

22 comments:

Jamie Rose said...

Do I wanna dance? With you? Anytime.

Love you so,
Rose

Anonymous said...

Thought you'd never ask!

Lovely to hear how much fun you had...

xo
Phillipa

Anonymous said...

I was thinking about you all having the party..sounds lovely.

suzanne

JIm said...

Lally,

I suspect you are surprised you made it to 70. I assumed you have learned and adjusted along the way. I am suprised that a man who is obviously intelligent has not been able to see the fatal flaws in socialism. We have the history and results of FDR, LBJ, Carter, and Obama. All produced poor economies. Only Clinton, of the Democrats produced positive growth because he was dragged kicking and screaming to economic reform. I suspect your man Obamas will lose big in November as America comes to its senses. I suspect as you have learned nothing from history, you will learn nothing from his coming defeat.

Happy Birthday!!

Lally said...

Can you believe this guy? Talk about passive-aggressive. As for the usual outright lies: FDR did everything he could to save capitalism from socialism (which looked at the time of capitalism's greatest failure, The Great Depression, like it might actually take over the world), LBJ presided over one of the most successful economic booms in USA history, Carter was a true capitalist as he proved in his own enterprises (his peanut farm did not benefit from corporate welfare etc.) and his centrist capitalist policies were sabotaged by the growing rightwing which has never been interested in capitalism or "the free market" but instead in power and the inerests of the corporate powers that can fund their political power etc.) and Obama is a pragmatist. The only socialist politician holding any federal office today is Senator Bernie Sanders, and the only socialist that came anywhere near the presidency was Eugene V. Debs who only got twelve per cent of the vote if I remember correctly and was jailed for his advocacy of socialism and pacifism. Next lies get deleted, and this guy can't complete a sentence without lying.

Jamie Rose said...

Right on Lals.

And yes, what a lovely and genuine Happy Birthday greeting from your "frenemy."

xo
J

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Robert G. Zuckerman said...

Michael,

I know you don't like cussing, but is it ok to use the kiddie term "tushee" in referring to Jim?

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Lally said...

Absolutely Robert. And as most know, I'm not averse to cursing, just want the blog to be as accessible as it can be.

-K- said...

Bad form, Jim. There's a time and place for everything.

Loyeen said...

Lally,

Happy birthday!! Sounds like you have a great family!

Loyeen

Lally said...

I do Loyeen and am very grateful for that. Thanks.

Robert G. Zuckerman said...
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Robert G. Zuckerman said...

Michael,

In your honor I wanted to paste the Flynn Kindsight(r) piece here, but couldn't figure out how, so I put in on my blog at:

http://www.kindsight.blogspot.com

Happy Birthday!

Robert Z.

tpw said...

Dear Michael: So sorry I couldn't be at the party, but looking forward to seeing you this week in NYC. As for the troll, he is a really pathetic character, but so typical of the toxic right-wing anti-Americans who now control the Repugnant Party. love, T

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Lally said...

You were there through your poem TPW, and Robert, thank you for reminding me of that great Kindsight piece you did on Flynn and his(my/our) heritage being so evident in his face and eyes. Brilliant as always.

Lally said...

Oh, and Jamie, can't wait.

tom said...

Belated, but Happy Birthday!!
Sound like it was a great one.

Lally said...

It was Tom, thanks.